Expressing feelings

Have you ever felt like crying, just crying your heart out, not for any one reason but hundreds of them? 🙋I had and I think many of us had felt it. So this is just a reminder that it's okay to cry. All these thoughts are coming from a highly sensitive person (I don't like to be called a crybaby though) who cries over small things, whose personality changes from a jolly person to a silent one when sad, who don't talk to anyone when angry or on the urge of crying coz she knows she will be rude. I don't like to show my sensitive side to people but I can't control my emotions. I get very conscious while crying like I can't cry my heart out in front of anyone except my parents. In public, I don't technically cry, I just sob really hard, it's just my tears are falling, making a light sound and there's a lump stuck at my throat making it harder for me. In my opinion, crying doesn't symbolize your weakness or strength, it's just a simple expression of what you are feeling at the moment. Crying is normal just as smiling is. When we are happy, we smile, in the same manner when we are sad, we cry. Just a normal emotional state of ours. Let us look at it in another way, do you feel death is as rational as life is, winter is as rational as summer is, being awake is as rational as being asleep is, and failure is as rational as success is? If yes, then crying should also be as relevant as smiling is. I have seen people comforting by forcing (yeah actually forcing) the one to not cry and participate in the activities happening around, harshly wiping the tears. Why do they have to be so harsh? If it happens to me, I would slap that bish really hard while crying. If someone is feeling down, it is much better to talk to them or try to cheer them up. Comforting is an art, not everyone can do it. I'm also not so good at comforting but still, I make sure to make the other feel comfortable and light. Not letting your tears fall, holding onto emotions, and creating a bulge of thoughts inside your head will suffocate you so it's better to let your tears fall, get rid of those emotions which are holding you back from moving on, and let your thoughts out. But it's also not like you will cry every time you get a chance then it is a waste of tears. Even though I cry a lot but I try not to let the same thing affect me again and again.

Hope you all like it <3 and comment and let me know what you think about this one.

Have a great day💙